Friend Zone

Friend zone. Eto ang usong term ngayon sa mga kabataan. Ano nga ba ang friend zone? Yung tipong akala mo more than friends kayo pero ooopss we’re just friends. It’s normal to be friends with the opposite sex and develop feelings for them later on. It can be mutual or one-sided.

 It would be nice if the feeling is mutual, kasi sabi nila the best foundation for a strong relationship is friendship.

Pero paano pag one-sided lang? Yan ang masaklap, kasi it would hurt so much, lalo na if you are getting the wrong signal. Ako na friend zone din ako ng close friend ko. We always talk on the phone for hours. Very sweet and thoughtful siya. I tried to hold back my feelings pero mahirap gawin dahil pilit kumakawala si feelings. Eventually nalaman din niya ang feelings ko for him.

At what happened next is he started avoiding me and things are different between us. I confronted him and he answered me kasi may feelings ka daw sa akin, ayaw ko masaktan kita kasi hanggang friendship lang kaya ko ibigay sa yo. BOOM! FRIEND ZONED. It hurts pero minsan kailangan natin harapin at tanggapin ang mga situation na di naayon sa gusto natin. Kaya mga girls and boys never assume na dahil lang sweet and thoughtful un friend mo sa iyo doesn’t mean he/she has feelings for you. Saklap.

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